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2021 Goals!

 In 2021: 

I would like to continue making food choices that meet my body's needs.  More vegetables and water, less carbs and candy.   About the same amount of tea.

I would like to read 100 books!

I would like to visit a new state.

I would like to go on a real date with my husband once a month.

I would like to visit 5 state parks with Ledger.


I'd like to spend more time laughing with my son, less time talking AT him.

I'd like to spend more time celebrating my gifts, less time worrying.

I'd like to spend more time listening, less time talking.

I'd like to spend more time reading, less time watching Chopped.


Naps and volunteering and engaging with my community.   

Hugs and snuggles and long walks with the dogs.

No one gets sick, everyone stays happy and engaged at school and work, no one dies.  


Let's Go.

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